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Morning Coffee w/Kaitlyn – 3/31/19

March 31, 2019
Dearest Readers,

A good Sunday morning to you, and many thanks for stopping by. Today On This Date has highlights from 1959 and 1992, Top of the Charts reviews the #1 songs and album from this date in 1984 and Charles Bukowski is featured on Philosophy 101.

Enjoy, and many thanks for reading,
xoxoxo,
Kaitlyn

On This Date:
In 1959 – Following the Tibetan Uprising, the Dali Lama and his entourage cross Tibet’s border into India and are granted political asylum. In time, more than 80,000 Tibetans would follow the Dali Lama into India, where the Dali Lama continues to live as a refugee. Today Tibet is regarded by almost everybody other than Tibetans as a province of China

In 1992 – The battleship USS Missouri (BB-63) is decommissioned at the Puget Sound Naval Shipyard and put into mothballs. Commissioned in 1944, it saw 17 years of active service, serving America honorably in World War II, Korea and Operation Desert Storm and is perhaps best known as the site of the Japanese surrender at the end of World War II.

Top of the Charts
#1 songs on this date in 1984:
Hot 100 – Footloose…Kenny Loggins (1st of three weeks)
Soul Chart – Somebody’s Watching Me…Rockwell (5th and final week)
Country Chart – Let’s Stop Talkin’ About It…Janie Fricke (only week)
UK Singles Chart – Hello…Lionel Ritchie (3rd of three weeks)
Album Chart – Thriller…Michael Jackson (35th of 37 non-consecutive weeks)
– Chart data courtesy of Billboard (US) and Official Charts Company (UK).

Numbers Racket
10,690: the continuous number of days the US has been at war.
22.168: the number of dollars, in trillions, of America’s national debt. – Source: usdebtclock.org
591: number of days until Election Day 2020.

Philosophy 101
I had always been good company for myself.
Charles Bukowski

We must like ourselves. Consider this: we are the only person we will see every day of our lives. Parents, spouses, kids, and friends will come and go, but every morning there we are, looking the mirror, our reflection staring back at us.

Do we like what we see? If we are going to have any sort of internal peace and happiness, any sort of anchor for a good life, that answer must be yes. We must be happy to see our reflection in the mirror every day.

Now, we do not want to be in love with ourselves, but we must be able to be alone in the same room with ourselves. We must be comfortable being alone from time to time though, of course, we do not need to be hermits.

This isn’t always easy. We have faults and some of us dwell on our faults and let them overcome and define us. Our instincts tell us something is wrong and we do it anyway. Even if this act yielded some perceived advantage or gain, inside we are not happy with ourselves. Some are determined to do better next time, while others say screw it, and repeat the behavior.

The best way to like yourself is to live the life you were meant to live, to be completely in tune with who you are and what you were meant to accomplish in this life. To do this, four traits are helpful:

– Have a plan for your life. Know where you want to go and how you want to get there. Listen to your heart and trust your instincts.
– Execute that plan every day. Not some days and not others, not some years and not others. Be on your path every day.
– Come back strong from the inevitable setbacks because there will be many. You cannot let the early reverses get you down.
– Believe that success is there for the taking, that all you have to do is put the work in to go and get it.

Those that get on in this life have these four traits and if you don’t it’s easy to get them: follow your heart and trust your instincts because your heart will tell you where to go and your instincts will tell you how to get there.

Charles Bukowski (1920-1994) was a German-born American poet and novelist.

Morning Coffee w/Kaitlyn – 3/30/19

March 30, 2019
Dearest Readers,

It’s a rather violent edition of On This Date, as we revisit a car bombing and an assassination attempt, while Top of the Charts mellows out in 1974 and Philosophy 101 talks about not dying in the closet.

Many thanks for reading,
xoxoxo,
Kaitlyn

On This Date:
In  1965 – A car bomb explodes outside the US Embassy in Saigon, South Vietnam. The car bomb was placed by the Viet Cong, the Communists that ran the People’s Liberation Armed Forces of South Vietnam, who were the enemy in the Vietnam War. The explosion killed two Americans, 19 Vietnamese, and one Filipino serving in the US Navy and injured 183.

In 1981 – John Hinckley Jr., looking to impress actress Jodi Foster, attempts to assassinate President Ronald Reagan, shooting him once in the chest. Reagan would suffer a broken rib and a punctured lung but would recover. Also shot were Press Secretary James Brady, whose injuries confined him to a wheelchair for the rest of his life, and a Secret Service agent and a Washington, D.C. policeman. Hinkley was found not guilty by reason of insanity and was confined to mental hospitals until 2016. He is now 63 and lives in Williamsburg, Virginia.

Top of the Charts
#1 songs on this date in 1974:
Hot 100 – Sunshine on My Shoulders…John Denver (only week)
Soul Chart – Lookin’ for a Love…Bobby Womack (3rd and final week)
Country Chart – Would You Lay With Me (In a Field of Stone)…Tanya Tucker (only week)
UK Singles Chart – Billy Don’t Be a Hero…Paper Lace (3rd of three weeks)
Album Chart – John Denver’s Greatest Hits…John Denver (1st of three non-consecutive weeks)
– Chart data courtesy of Billboard (US) and Official Charts Company (UK).

Numbers Racket
10,689: the continuous number of days the US has been at war.
22.164: the number of dollars, in trillions, of America’s national debt. – Source: usdebtclock.org
592: number of days until Election Day 2020.

Philosophy 101
Don’t die hiding in the closet.
Jim Murray


We can all do something well. It was one of the earliest lessons we remember learning and it is a lesson that proves itself on a daily basis.

We must be us. Our time on this planet is not only finite but of undetermined length. Unless we are in possession of a death warrant or a suicide note we have no idea when our time on this planet will end. Fair enough. This means we have an obligation to ourselves and our fellow beings to get the most out of the talents we were issued at birth. When our turn comes to die, we must ensure we are looking back at time well-spent and not time squandered. To do this we must do three things:

We must have the wisdom to know what we are about, to know the life we are meant to live.
We must have the courage to go and live that life
We must have the patience to see our journey through to the very end.

We must do these things every day. Not some days and not others, not some years and not others. We must live the life we are meant to live every day, from the day we commit to our path to the day we die. There’s no middle ground.

When we do this, when our lives exhibit these three traits, then we are living the life we are meant to live – life’s great prize. There is no hiding in the closet.

Jim Murray (1919-98) was an American sportswriter, best known as a columnist for the Los Angeles Times.